Tribe of Iron Workbook DEFINE each Element in your own words. RATE each sentence based on how true it is to you. Be brutally honest in your answers. There are no judgments, and all answers are confidential. Please RESIST the urge to ask anyone else for their opinions. This is about how you FEEL you are seen by yourself and these outside groups. Use the OPTIONAL notes section to talk about anything that comes up for you. Yes, this form is going to ask you how you are seen by your "partner." Don't be put off by this if you are not currently in a relationship. Please use your most recent relationship or any pattern you've seen over time. Lastly, these "Elements" and your ratings of them are not a measurement of your masculine nature. This is a limited set of words that I want you to react to in an honest manner. I am trying to keep this workbook as short as possible, so not every possible quality of The Masculine is listed here. Step 1 of 18 5% Name* First Last Email* Enter Email Confirm Email A Few Quick QuestionsHow do you define masculinity?How do you feel that masculinity is seen in the world these days?*Using your definition, how masculine do you consider yourself?What is the "manliest" thing about you?* SuccessfulDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am successful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as successful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as successful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as successful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes SpiritualDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am spiritual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as spiritual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as spiritual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as spiritual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes DecisiveDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am decisive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as decisive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as decisive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as decisive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes SexualDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am sexual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as sexual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as sexual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as sexual.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes CompassionateDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am compassionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as compassionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as compassionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as compassionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes PowerfulDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am powerful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as powerful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as powerful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as powerful.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes AdventurousDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am adventurous.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as adventurous.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as adventurous.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as adventurous.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes ResponsibleDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am responsible.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as responsible.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as responsible.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as responsible.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes VulnerableDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am vulnerable.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as vulnerable.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as vulnerable.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as vulnerable.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes CreativeDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am creative.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as creative.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as creative.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as creative.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes AssertiveDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am assertive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as assertive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as assertive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as assertive.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes IntelligentDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am intelligent.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as intelligent.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as intelligent.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as intelligent.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes PassionateDefine the word and rate the truth of the four statements.Your Definition:*I am passionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as passionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as passionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as passionate.*Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes Use this space to add an element if you wish. Add Your Own ElementDefine This ElementI am this element.Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy partner sees me as this element.Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueMy friends and family see me as this element.Not TrueFairly TrueVery TruePeople who don't know me see me as this element.Not TrueFairly TrueVery TrueNotes Any additional notes? Did you notice and large variances on any certain Facets? Were you surprised by any of your answers? Did any Facets make you uncomfortable, curious, or excited? Feel free to add any information that you think is interesting.Anything else you want me to know about? Improving the ProcessI'm always looking for feedback from my clients regarding this process. If you have any input regarding the form or this process so far, please include it here. Was anything missing or difficult to understand? Form/Process Feedback